Six months. I am at the halfway point of my one year, living in a camper experiment.
My life is very satisfying, I am
contemplating extending this experiment indefinitely. Sure the
camper is in a ware house, but in a month or so I will be reattaching
it to my truck and going away every chance I can into the BC
wilderness this spring, summer and fall.
I am so grateful for my life these
days. The sun is shining, the air is crisp and the Earth rumbles
with the early tremors of spring. A new year, a new crop, and a new
perspective. I've become a daily meditator, have a great job where
I feel I am contributing and making a difference. There is new love
in my life.
I try to remind myself that most of how
we live our lives is perspective. Most importantly our own. How we
look at the world effects everything. One of my favourite
author/presenter’s, Wayne Dyer, states: “When we change the way
we look at things, the things we look at change.”
One morning a couple of weeks ago, a
trucker who was at the grease plant picking up 27000 liters of
filtered veggie oil and I had a great exchange.
Kevin, the trucker, and I started
talking about perception. He told me he was at a party where a man
was talking on this very same subject, and was holding up a card.
There were people gathered all around him in a circle and he asked
them what colour they saw. The people in the front saw the colour
white, while those behind saw the colour black. They all saw the
same thing, but from different perspectives. The reality is that
both can be true. The card was black and white.
I found this example to be quite
profound. How and where we are when we see something changes it's
appearance. My view of reality is only a pin hole in a shoebox
called the Universe. So perception is relative, mutable and thus
completely changeable.
Our thinking defines how we see things.
Are we optimistic, pessimistic, realistic? Are we fearful, or
open? Do we oscillate between these states?
Some people would see living in a
camper as a failure of some kind – where as I see it as ultimate
freedom. I don't really care how others see me these days, the less
I focus on the opinions of what others think of me, and the more I
focus on MY opinion of me, in a healthy way, the happier and more
fulfilling life is.
I have done my utmost to reduce my time
with complainers, pessimists and people who want to waste energy on
negativity and excuses. I have gone through my facebook feed and
removed notifications from organizations and individuals that just
spread negative obviousness. When I voice something to my small
world, I want it to be uplifting, fun or at least some emotion on the
positive spectrum. We all get wound up, but the world isn't going to
change. Ever.
The only thing we can do is change how
we look at things, everything. I can tell what people are happy by
the amount of energy they focus on what inspires them, makes them
laugh and how they love. Where as those who complain, judge and
point out what's wrong tend to be people that always have something
to complain, or judge about in their lives, constantly.
I still wrestle with judgement and
complaining – it's very easy to get caught up. I still do it, but
a heck of a lot less then I used to. While I am doing it I can catch
myself in the act, and I have learned to be able to shift into
looking at the things I am complaining about as something else;
learning lessons. Yes, cliche, but everything that happens is
neutral, until we give it a charge, either positive or negative.
Many of us are unaware that this life
is an inside job, it's an inside out gig. A great example is one
again from Wayne Dyer, where he talks about how people are trying to
“comb the mirror” - trying to fix the reflection, instead of the
perceiver of that reflection (ie. YOU). You can't fix what's already
outside, you have to change how you see. This is hard.
You have to realize that the models you
use to see the world are all flawed – because they are programs
given to you by your parents, teachers, and peers that validate the
world from an external point of view. When you realize that your OS
is a program that was not installed by your own will, you are on the
road to discovery. There are a plethora of books out there that can
help you start looking at the only thing that you really have power
to change, your own perception.
I find Negativity to be a closing,
imploding kind of energy, where as Positivity is an opening,
exploding kind of energy. I try very hard to be the latter, and
maybe that is why I am such a happy dude...but a work in process dude
nonetheless.
Change your perception, and you truly
do change your world.
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